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Saturday, July 17, 2010

WE COME & GO WITH EMPTINESS

It's a miracle everytime we see people around us having new members into their families.

We see babies here and there, along the journey, we see happiness, joy, love and care!

All babies come with nothing but a body, cute small little body and all babies cry! Hahaha, they cry for happiness, at last, they are here, with love from their new family in this world!

Children are adorable, as they grow, you'll see how they learn things, one new thing everyday, from drinking milk, to eat porridge, and very soon you'll see them eating the same portion of rice that you do! How beautiful this world is! It was the same that happened to us. When we were born, we cried, and we brought happiness to our family members. Most of us will go through the same level of life!

  • from a small little baby without teeth
  • from a small little toddler who learns ABC
  • from a small little kid who tried to play swing at the playground
  • struggling in school during exams
  • being punished when homework is not done
  • being kissed by family members when we were younger (and not many kiss us when we grow older hahaha)...
  • learn how to buy food with the money our parents give to us
  • participate in some talent contest organised by the school
  • drawing a human that looks like a robot, colouring a chicken in blue colour... hahaha
  • comparing who's school bag is more stylish
  • keep on losing our erasers in the classroom
  • learn to commute in public transport (I still remember Len Sen and Toong Fong bus :D)
  • start to wear underwear... (oops!)
  • learn how to read the time...
  • select and compare our idol with others
  • girls start to care about how they look like...
  • guys start to play basketball...
  • some have puppy love... some were just admiring each other...
  • classes are the same old subject with the same old teacher...
  • attending birthday parties of friends (how wonderful)
  • love Chinese New Year - as we'll have income hahaha
  • look forward to school holidays as we can sleep until 2pm!!
  • always hang on the phone with our favourite friends...

and many many happy things that we can look forward to!












Baby - cry, being fed, smile, sleep

Toddler - walk, fall, read, eat eat eat

Kid - play, forget about time, play and play

Primary school - scared to see teacher with rotan...

Secondary school - time to peep on boys / girls hahaha

College - puppy love, monkey love and some make love (hahahaha)

In 20's - enjoy, clubs, work for fun, live young! - some got married and got stucked hahaha

In 30's - started to think, the objective of life (some started to think in their 20's so when they reached 30's they started to feel so old)

In 40's - settle down, work to pass time, and start to plan for retirement...

In 50's - some retired and wanted to enjoy life for another 20 years...

In 60's - it's no longer party time, from this point, just expect more funerals than birthday parties ... (no hard feelings)

In 70's - be glad if you are still around... because, at this age, the younger generation started to see if you're rich or worth to be around...


In short, we come with emptiness, means we come empty-handed... but we bring joy to our family. And as we grow older, we see more things, we make mistakes, many mistakes, and we move on. We get to forgive and forget... we love and we are loved. One day, we realise one thing about ourselves, we are just here temporarily and we are not alone.


God created us, with love & care... with joy & happiness... it's us to determine how we want our life to be. When we make mistakes, we learn, and we pray that we don't have to go through such mistake again... when we are at the lowest point of life, all we need is one or two family or friends to be with us, until we are UP again. Life is unpredictable, it's challenging.

Let's turn this emptiness into rainbows, let's make everyone smile today by START SMILING.

One day, when we leave this world, we'll just be smiling away, no regrets!

I treasure and love my family and friends, colleagues.... and appreciate all my close buddies for their attention and care. We might have a lot of acquaintances in our walk of life, but choose, good ones, so we can LIVE IN A BIG FAMILY!



Stop thinking that we need to out-shine others, sometimes, lay low is good too, and sometimes, we just need the moon-light to free our mind!

Friday, July 16, 2010

DO WE FIGHT TO LIVE OR LIVE TO FIGHT?

It looks like a confusing subject hahaha....

Do we fight to live? Oh yes, we have to do all sorts of things to make sure we move on. We also make sure that we have enough of $$$ to eat, buy things we need, ensure that we have shelter, and being able to pay bills!! That's why most of us are working.




Even housewives are workers. They work while their husbands work out there, bringing home income to support the family. Housewives work at home, making good meals, take care of children, and make a comfortable homes for the whole family. All of us, fight to live :D



What about the statement talking about, do we live to fight? ARRRGGGHHHH.... we see fights everywhere. Drug dealers fight with each other to get more business, food stalls' owners try their best to cook the best food so that more customer go to their stalls... students fight with each other to get better results, husband and wife fight with each other to make a decision, and best part that we'll never miss is the MOST SICKENING OFFICE POLITICS!!



In fact, in this new working world, everyone wants to climb higher, because they want more salary. Other than shoe-polishing, they must also have skills to gain a greater heights. It's normal for managers to 'fight' with other managers to gain more trust from the top-boss! And it's normal for a group of executives to perform to their best to win the hearts of their managers. It's also normal for a group of lower category staff, to fight with each other to do better, walk the extra mile in their daily work, hoping one day they'll be promoted.


This type of 'fight' is healthy, whereby everyone do their best, perform to their maximun and benefit the company in the long run. But some people tend to play games. The way they fight, is totally dangerous, they are selfish and never think of others!!



Simple ways to identify these type of "sell-fish" workers:-
  • they smile in front of everyone and have plans behind;
  • they offer their help in some tasks, just hoping to get credits;
  • they pretend to be your friend, at the back, they back-stab you;
  • they pretend to be caring, so that they get more information about you, and one day, the information will be 'sold' to others (and they gain more 'followers' because others who has lower EQ will think that they are informative)
  • they select tasks that they like to do, and do very quickly;
  • the tasks that they dislike, they will say, there is no instructions given... hahaha
  • they have all sorts of excuses when they do something wrong, just try hard to push the responsibility away;
  • they think they are the KING or QUEEN in the office;
  • when they speak, they will speak as loud as they can, so that their voice is heard;
  • best part, they forget, they are not the BOSS and good bosses don't speak LOUD;
  • they will have a lot of papers on their desk, showing that they have a lot to follow-up;
  • when you ask about a project, if they can't do it, they drag it - without informing you!
  • when you discover that they tell lies, they have another set of lies to cover their intial lies, hahaha, geng!
  • if you really care about them, they say you pretend (especially when you discover something bad about them, and they need to back-stab you);
  • you can spend years to treat someone good, but, if one day, that particular person who plays politic, will only PICK ONE not-so-good-thing you did to him/her and POINT AT YOU AND SHOOOOT!
It's just purely life, and work is for us to gain $$$ to live on. Is it so crucial til we've to find a 'victim' to back-stab on? Also, is it so important to 'fight' and play politics? These politic players forget about one thing,






THEY NEED TO ANSWER TO GOD ONE DAY.
Happy playing with fire and God is watching. Hahaha, cheers!

Saturday, July 10, 2010

THE BACK-UP PLAN

Does everyone has a back-up plan?

What's your back-up plan if you car is 'sick'?

What's your back-up plan when your friend calls you and tell she is not coming to meet you and you are already in the mall?

What's your back-up plan when you don't get to eat at the restaurant that you always wanted to eat at?

For someone who just lost his/her job, what's the back-up plan? Some wanted to take a break and find a same new job in a different company. Some feels that it's time for a change...

Most back-up plans are unplanned... and some are planned :D

Not all people has a back-up plan as they are lazy to think of anything, they go with the flow.

Some gets panic and doesn't know what to do when something goes not-so-right!... common' cool down, everything has a solution... that's why God gives us 'problems' hahahaha with solutions :D

The best thing that God creating us is that, in human lives, we have relationships. Parents with children, brothers with sisters, friends with other friends, colleagues with colleagues, teachers and students, shopkeepers with customers, girls and boys, puppies with puppies... elephants with elephants... we are not alone :D Life is beautiful and you've got to know it!

Everyone wonders what is in store for us, to have, to feel and to conquer, but all we have to know is, life shouldn't be planned rigidly. We have to think for ourselves, people we loved and how we should make life more meaningful.

I do pray every night before I sleep, I'm very thankful for what life has brought to me, and every morning when I wake up, I will say thank you for the good night sleep and head for a wonderful day ahead. And I know, God is listening to us....

Everyone has something to say, and everyone has some agendas in mind, but does it actually matter? It matters only if we need a back-up plan for whatever we do...

Forget about the back-up plans once in a while and live happily.

I love you :*