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Saturday, August 10, 2013

FACES AT SWIMMING POOL


Today was at the Hamsphire Residence's swimming pool, quite a beautiful pool :)

I was just sitting there, as usual, I observe other people and smiling away looking at the cute children playing water...

I heard phone rings, and there was a 'quite leangjai' guy walked over after a while, I told him that his phone was ringing.  He said, "Ya, I am checking it now".  Lucky! Leangjai sitting beside me wor, hahaha!  Not only he made some phone calls, he also sat for a while and before he left, he ta-bik at me lo...

Saw a lot of beautiful children (mat salleh) and there is one small little boy wearing pampers to the children pool, he was making some cute sound while passing by me, trying to grab my attention, very adorable!

Saw a woman in the pool with 3 daughters, I think the eldest one is around 12, another one is maybe 9 and the youngest is very small size, could be below 3 years old.  This little girl swims so well, her mother threw her in the pool.  Amazing, other than in Youtube... this is my 1st time seeing such a young girl swimming :)  Her mom has short hair, could be in her early 40s, looked like lady-boss hahaha, coz she seldom smile but she spent time with her children, which is lovely to me.

There are parents swimming together with their small children, saw a proud father playing with his daughter and later, he sat in the bench beside mine... he was talking to a new friend.  They were talking about skiing ... blah blah blah...

My Korean friend was busy swimming with the handsome boys, having fun ... good for me, he is very capable taking care of them hehehe.... (while his wife is resting in the house... he babysits the boys walaueh)

It was relaxing for me, and every time I see a pool, I would love to be in it!  But I just don't know how to swim, and only a few of my buddies know why! Hahaha, it was purely a old-story of mine, which is very funny but true!

Again, every time I see families spending time in the pool, that really makes me wonder when can be my turn?... Not asking for anything, but being with our loved ones, doing beautiful things like this, really meaningful...

Nice day out for me!

Friday, August 9, 2013

HAPPINESS HAS A 'PRICE TAG'?


I believe that whenever we go to buy things, there is a price-tag.  Human created those "price tag"... long long time ago during the ancient times, those people trade without using money.  They exchanged goods... hehehe!

I get questions from my friends and even colleagues, "Candy, how can you be so happy at all times?" ... to be honest, I don't know why.  I just feel that we don't have to be moody or angry.  Of course, at times, I am mad and I speak louder, but that doesn't mean I am crazy... I care when things go wrong, I speak out my mind, that's all.  Other than that, I am generally a fun and bubbly person.

Does it cost anything to be happy?  Give it a price tag.  Not necessary to be a figure... The word "PRICE" can be an alphabet... "H" perhaps! Hahaha...

Work-life-balance, this is just a term, not everyone gets this!  But we can choose to 'balance' the imbalanced!  I always ask for simple life.  I pray everyday before I sleep, I ask for a good night sleep for my family and thank God for a smooth sailing day.  The next morning, the 1st thing I do before getting up from bed, I pray and thank God for a good night sleep and ask for a smooth, simple and happy day with my family & at work.

I am thankful and counting my blessings.  When people are busy with their houses & cars, thinking of which branded bags to buy, looking forward to buy latest Smartphones, comparing kids' school and their education levels... to me, these are just about money.  If you have money, you can stay in a big house, you can afford a big car, you can change phones twice a year and you can send your children to the best schools and give them the best!

What if you are not earning that much?  I was born in an average income family, not too poor, but I know that my mom did a good job in ensuring that our family is warm and happy.  Therefore, I never compare my life with others too much.  Of course at times, I feel bad that I couldn't afford a bigger house or a nicer car.  But when I think again, all these are about money.  Will you be happier if you get all these and not 100% happy?

I am not sure what others think.  For me, as long as I am employed, I can provide my family with yummy food, my mom is healthy, my boys are growing happily ... I will be the HAPPIEST PERSON!  I am not saying that I am not hoping for better living for my family, but at this moment, I am not complaining :)

When I have a chance, I do small charities to bring smiles to others.  When I get extra money to spend, I buy some goodies to share with my loved ones. 

Very simple thoughts, just don't compare, don't complain.  Good things will come, I believe in that!

HUGS!


TIPS THAT I LIKE!



Everyone should find a smile on his/her face no matter what's happening today -- remember that "Your energy is that great!'

REMIND yourself everyday - "Family first today!" It's one thing to have a successful career, a thriving social life, or a deeply fulfilling relationship. But how did you get there? It's likely your loved ones played a role. Give them some attention.

Everyone needs to TRAVEL, see the WORLD!

Seek out other people who are more compatible with YOU.  They're definitely somewhere out there, but it's up to you to find them.

See mistakes as opportunities to learn and to do better next time :)

YOU may need to be honest with yourself about your life direction. You don't really want what everyone else wants. Take some time to really examine what you need before you ask for it.

Getting things done properly is more important than getting them done quickly.

Show tact, and don't try to force people into doing things. You'll be happier that way! 

If you never ask questions, you'll never get answers. You can just wait for the solution to drop out of the sky, but sometimes you have to take initiative. 

Be honest, direct, and willing to back up your points with facts or data

Remember that creative energy is infectious. Show others that having a bright and cheerful attitude can turn around any bad situation. By being more open-minded and free-thinking, friends and family will follow suit.

Who says you can't conquer the world?  Stay focused -- you can move mountains right now!

When you love, it needs to be from a deep spiritual and soul level. Superficial love is not what provides the glue that will keep you and your partner together. Look for love that is unconditional, not someone who is only interested in a superficial connection.

It is important to look after yourself and make decisions you can live with. The path you choose to go down may not please everyone in your life, but close friends and your partner, those who love and respect you, will adapt.

Sometimes you're happy and sometimes you're blue. Being human has it's up and downs. Seeing a beautiful sunset is a great way of putting things into perspective!