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I believe, if the guy loves me, he will also take his time to get to know my family and eventually accept my children. Now, I no longer hope for a man, who can accept my children, at the very beginning stage. All I want to do is, I will make sure my kids are well taken care of, and lead a happy childhood with the great help from my mom.
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I had a great childhood despite the limited time spent with my own father. He is a great person, but when my parent's marriage failed, I was being brought up happily and I enjoyed my childhood to the fullest.
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Here comes a quick check-list that I have in mind (sounds a little selfish, but this is a blog ma, I can say whatever I wanted to say) wow, hahaha!
Keep on looking - - -
- non-smoker if possible, I don't feel like kissing a smoker (kau-meang-ar)
- I hope that he likes to exercise, not necessary to be a gym member or what, but at least, when I want to go for morning walk, he is into it!
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- Someone who always mention about his family is wonderful, at least, I know his heart is not just himself, he thinks about others, but not all the time talk about his family, at least, he knows, he has a family who has been supportive, that's lovely
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- brings me out to meet his family & friends, and don't feel 'shy' of my background (yes, I am divorced with 2 kids, does it mean that I am not a human? I don't choose to live a terrible marriage, but I have to admit that I make a decision which benefits my children and myself too)
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- I will also bring him along to meet my friends, just be there, I am selective of making friends, and I know he will be happy that I am surrounded with good people too
- no one wants to be with a flirt, in real or online flirt. Just think, what if I also flirt all the time, would that be a great partner? Respect is the word :)
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- be transparent, we both treat each other as 'feelings station' whereby we can share ups and downs without being shy
- talk to me like friends, no lies and no limitation to topics
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- he cannot stop me from doing charity
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- Romantic, not necessary with gifts, but at least during special occasions, we both know that we should be together. If there is any other invitation, just try to go together lo
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- Weekly movie, can?
- Eat at least 3 breakfasts & 3 dinner together in a week (if it happens that he is not in KL, pls at least call once in every 2 days, to check if he's still alive) hahaha
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- cook some meals, and eat together
- write small notes to say "I love you" - not everyday, just sometimes hahaha
- give surprises on birthdays, anniversaries, valentines, christmas, or any other special dates...
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- say "I Love You" when we see each other, or when we want to hang up on the phone (if there is a chance to)
- Hold my hands whenever possible (I always see old couple, holding hands, they are so lovely)
- be daring to kiss me in public, if he is shy, on the cheeks at least! hahaha
- snap lots of pictures together ...
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- Put a picture of me in his wallet, preferably 'our picture' and don't be shy to put our pictures in facebook, msn, skype, etc
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- Plan for short holidays whenever possible, even a 2D 1N outstation trip is good enough (if he can afford, we can go for yearly travel)
- A small gift a month, as a remembrance. I don't mind if it's a RM 10 earrings
- And please, allow me to go dancing in clubs once in a while, I am not drinking, I just want to dance a little before I get older ...
Not sure if the above are too much to remember, I'll play my part to ensure that the relationship works too! CHEERS!
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